If you want happiness for an hour, take a nap.
If you want happiness for a day, go fishing.
If you want happiness for a year, inherit a fortune.
If you want happiness for a lifetime, help somebody.
                                       ---Chinese proverb

'Suffering and deprivation is good for the soul.' Quote A timely and very down-to-earth message which does not "comfort" only the Singaporeans, but this could benefit all of us. It's not because she is the daughter of Lee Kuan Yew and not because she is a well-established medical doctor in neuroscience, but as a rightful citizen of Singapore who shares its obligation and responsibility. There may be policy issues which we disagree with how Singapore is being "run" or "managed". The message delivered here however does reflect where we are now - sitting in the midst of this financial turmoil and where we are going! Please do yourself a favor. Do read to the end. A nice and touching article to read. Plenty of foods for thought. This letter is beautifully "crafted" in English. It is a shining example of how English should be "written". Unquote This message was forwarded to me via email yesterday by Chinese Commercial News Publisher Solomon Yuyitung, including the Prof. Lee Wei Ling essay. Thanks! Philippine Star columnist William "Billy" M.  Esposo also shared this Prof. Lee essay in his column on March 8, 2009 with the following words: What we can learn from Lee Kuan Yew's daughter "Ever since my sister Dorothy was based in Singapore, following her appointment as the ASEAN Regional Head of Bayer Corporate Communications some five years ago, my wife and I found ourselves visiting her there occasionally. "Every time I land in Singapore, I could not help but notice how much we have been left behind. At the time when Lee Kuan Yew, now Minister Mentor, was struggling to stabilize the new State of Singapore, the Philippine economy was ranked second only to Japan in Asia. Now, we cannot even claim to be second in ASEAN. (Photograph of Singapore Skyline #12 by Christopher Chan, sourced from website photographyblogger.net) "Recently, the year-end message of the daughter of Lee Kuan Yew, Associate Professor Lee Wei Ling, caught my attention. It was Professor Lee’s 2007 message to her staff at the National Neuroscience Institute where she is a Director. Published in their newspaper and posted online by the Sunday Times of Singapore last January 4, the message was forwarded to me by my good friend, former Senator Jun Magsaysay. "I found this message to be loaded with the values that former Prime Minister Lee  Kuan Yew has espoused — values that formed the core of the Singapore success story. "The superb statecraft that made Singapore successful is a mere reflection of the values its leaders lived by. Associate Professor Lee’s message underscored the good values of austerity, frugality, concern for the poor, civic consciousness and social responsibility that transformed a city State like Singapore into a modern financial center of Asia. "How come our leaders neither epitomize nor espouse those good values? How come our people, especially our youth, tend to pick up bad lessons from our leaders instead?

"Let me now share that values loaded message with you."

Article written by Lee Wei Ling

In 2007, in an end-of-year message to the staff of the National Neuroscience Institute, I wrote:

'Whilst boom time in the public sector is never as booming as in the private sector, let us not forget that boom time is eventually followed by slump time. Slump time in the public sector is always less painful compared to the private sector.'  

Slump time has arrived with a bang.  

While I worry about the poorer Singaporeans who will be hit hard, perhaps this recession has come at an opportune time for many of us. It will give us an incentive to reconsider our priorities in life.  

Decades of the good life have made us soft. The wealthy especially, but also the middle class in Singapore, have had it so good for so long, what they once considered luxuries, they now think of as necessities.

  

A mobile phone, for instance, is now a statement about who you are, not just a piece of equipment for communication. Hence many people buy the latest model though their existing mobile phones are still in perfect w orking order.  

A Mercedes-Benz is no longer adequate as a status symbol. For millionaires who wish to show the world they have taste, a Ferrari or a Porsche is deemed more appropriate.  

 The same attitude influences the choice of attire and accessories. I still find it hard to believe that there are people carrying handbags that cost more than thrice the monthly income of a bus driver, and many more times that of the foreign worker labouring in the hot sun, risking his life to construct luxury condominiums he will never have a chance to live in.  

The media encourages and amplifies this ostentatious consumption. Perhaps it is good to encourage people to spend more because this will prevent the recession from getting worse. I am not an economist, but wasn't that the root cause of the current crisis - Americans spending more than they could afford to?  

I am not a particularly spiritual person. I don't believe in the supernatural and I don't think I have a soul that will survive my death. But as I view the crass materialism around me, I am reminded of what my mother once told me:  'Suffering and deprivation is good for the soul.'  

 My family is not poor, but we have been brought up to be frugal.. My parents and I live in the same house that my paternal grandparents and their children moved into after World War II in 1945. It is a big house by today's standards, but it is simple - in fact, almost to the point of being shabby.  

Those who see it for the first time are astonished that Minister Mentor Lee Kuan Yew's home is so humble. But it is a comfortable house, a home we have got used to. Though it does look shabby compared to the new mansions on our street, we are not bothered by the comparison. 

(The British colonial era 5-bedrooms bungalow house of Lee Kuan Yew was built a century ago by a Jewish merchant)
 

(This photo of Lee Kuan Yew's living room in 38 Oaxley Road is courtesy of Zhaobao newspaper)

(Another photo of the Lee Kuan Yew house, from the blog of Jessica Zafra)




Most of the world and much of Singapore will lament the economic downturn. We have been told to tighten our belts. There will undoubtedly be suffering, which we must try our best to ameliorate. 

But I personally think the hard times will hold a timely lesson for many Singaporeans, especially those born after 1970 who have never lived through difficult times.  

 No matter how poor you are in Singapore , the authorities and social groups do try to ensure you have shelter and food. Nobody starves in Singapore ..  

Many of those who are currently living in mansions and enjoying a luxurious lifestyle will probably still be able to do so, even if they might have to downgrade from wines costing $20,000 a bottle to $10,000 a bottle. They would hardly notice the difference. 

 

 Being wealthy is not a sin. It cannot be in a capitalist market economy. Enjoying the fruits of one's own labour is one's prerogative and I have no right to chastise those who choose to live luxuriously.  

But if one is blinded by materialism, there would be no end to wanting and hankering. After the Ferrari, what next? An Aston Martin? After the Hermes Birkin handbag, what can one upgrade to?  

Neither an Aston Martin nor an Hermes Birkin can make us truly happy or contented.. They are like dust, a fog obscuring the true mean ing of life, and can be blown away in the twinkling of an eye. 

 

When the end approaches and we look back on our lives, will we regret the latest mobile phone or luxury car that we did not acquire? Or would we prefer to die at peace with ourselves, knowing that we have lived lives filled with love, friendship and goodwill, that we have helped some of our fellow voyagers along the way and that we have tried our best to leave this world a slightly better place than how we found it?  

We know which is the correct choice - and it is within our power to make that choice.  

 In this new year, burdened as it is with the problems of the year that has just ended, let us again try to choose wisely.  

To a considerable degree, our happiness is within our own control, and we should not follow the herd blindly.  

 The writer is director of Singapore's National Neuroscience Institute. And also Lee Kuan Yew's daughter...